Her true vine

 

Does he love you simply because he wants to marry you? Women mistake real love for how they feel for a particular person, your feelings is not a validation he truly loves you. What are his plans for you? His life must bring out your true worth, value, meaning and significance as Jesus did for us all, for God is not happy when we are treated lesser than our worth, because we are made in his image.

True love does not pressure or forces his way, love is patient and trust in God to work things out according to his plans and timing, for he understands the value and worth of what he got to give and love is not proud about it. He gives all the sweet promises when you become his, what then happens when you don’t?

 Love does not exist for gain but for what it can give this why it's unconditional, selfless and sacrificial. True love is more interested in your overall wellbeing, growth and future than making you his. Emotions can make a man crazy, go the extra mile, the truth is that it's for a season, when true love is tried it stands the test of time, because is born out of trust and understanding. Love is first how he sees you, what he sees in you, love is the value, worth and significance you place on a thing that makes that thing so meaningful and special to you, for which you can go the extra mile at the expense of yourself to nurture it, cherish it and care for it.

Love is in how he treats you with a sense of worth, meaning, value, humility, respect, dignity, loyalty, esteem and honor. Love is an environment that makes you feel special, important and gives you the freedom to grow, flourish, blossom from your spirit to your soul reaching your full potential. It's better for the man to love more, because good women will always fall in love in marriage, when given the right environment and naturally women incubate anything given to them, they multiply it and give it back to you, so if given love, they do just same, this why God commanded husbands to love.

 Build your conviction on true love that has a direction, purpose and destination in life which you can go in. If you can't find love in him, then he can't lead you into the fulfillment of the purpose and plan of God for your life, for true love is centered on God's purpose for your life. True love does not seek to buy you over, men are to give love, women are to accept love, you are to watch what you accepting, for love is only true, if it will lead you into becoming all that God has called you to be, fulfilling the purpose and plans of God for your life, taking you deeply in Christ.

Only God can lead you into what's true for you, if it's of love it's of God, love is not sex, not the cornering of her into a private place and walking his fingers into her pants, body and breast, love takes you deeper into God not out of God, a friend of destiny not an enemy, love understands the honor, sacredness God has placed on your body and nakedness and will give his life to protect it, your value. Love seeks to do the will of God because it's truly of God